Write For You: Change?

by Nancy Casey

Everything changes always.  Or at least that’s what they say.  Who is “they?”

Poets and philosophers.  Therapists and counselors.  Geologists.  Stock brokers.  You? 

Will the sun stop being round?  Will you get different parents someday?  Is water always wet?

As you clear a space for your writing materials, think about what does and doesn’t change in the world.  Loosen up your hands, fingers, arms and torso.  Move your legs around under you to get comfortable.  As you do so, start making a list in your head of things that are unlikely to change.

When you are ready, begin to write that list on the page.  Come up with five or ten things that don’t or can’t change.  If you have to wait for ideas to trickle into your head, doodle in the margins around the edge of the page. 

Choose one of the items you have listed, and write about why it is probably going to stay the same.  Tell what would have to happen for it to change and what would be different about the world if it did. 

For instance, what would it take for the sun to stop being round?  The intervention of aliens, perhaps.  Or the galaxy swinging into a new dimension where there were only straight lines?  Maybe just a special pair of glasses that made everything into triangles.

What would the world be like under this new sun?  How will plants grow?  Will skin cancer be an issue?  How will sunrise and sunset look different?  What will the new sunglasses be like?  Will there be any changes to your shadow?

Maybe you will write a lot about one thing on your list.  Or maybe you would rather write a little bit about each thing.  When you have finished, give your work a title and write the date on the page.

Here are some other examples of things you might write.

Throughout the week, continue to notice what does and doesn’t change.  Make a second list of things that you are certain will change.  Write about the things on that list by telling why you know they will change and how the world would be different if they stayed the same. 

Maybe you’ll find you need a third category for listing things that might change.  You might be able to break that down into “probably will change” and “probably won’t change.”

If you think and write about change for a week, you will become a philosopher.  What is change, exactly?  Does everything change or is that just a cool thing to say?  Have your ideas about change changed?

Nancy Casey is a writer and teacher who has lived in rural Latah County for many years.  You can see more of her work here.  Nancy will begin teaching writing classes at the Latah Recovery Center on Thursdays beginning April 6.  Watch the schedule for more details.

 

 

3/13 through 3/19 at The Center

New Write For You blog: https://latahrecoverycenter.org/2017/03/13/write-for-you-an-alphabet-of-today/
We had two great successes last week.
1.  Our Peer Social Committee hosted Bingo on Saturday, and 24 people came.  Looked like everyone was having fun when I stopped in!  This is the first of what we plan to make into a monthly social activity.  All are invited!
2.  Our 2nd Annual Fundraising Breakfast blew its goal out of the water, with 225 attendees and over $28,000 raised!  We are blessed to live in such a supportive community.  A special thanks to Gritman for their $5k pledge, and work to help us with upcoming fundraising.  Additional thanks to the Best Western University Inn, they always do a good job.  My hat is off to the many helpers that made this a success!  THANK YOU ALL!
Here is what’s coming up:

March at the Latah Recovery Center

Alcoholics Anonymous                                                  Every day, noon

Positive Affirmations                                                     Mondays and Weds 1:10-2

YOU Can Create Your Own Job                                    Monday 3/6, 6

Life Skills                                                                       Tuesdays 5-6

Managing Healthy Boundaries                                                Tuesday March 7, 6-7

Suicide Prevention:  Question, Persuade and Refer                 Tues., March 28, 6-7

Chess w/Steve                                                                Tues and Thurs 5-6

LRC Board of Directors meeting                                    Tuesday 3/14, 4-5:30

Art Making an Individual Experience                                     Wednesday, March 8 6:30

New Volunteer Orientation                                            Thursdays 4-5

LAMI:  Family Support Program                                   2nd Thurs of month 7-8:30

Knitting and Spinning                                                    Fridays 2-4

All Recovery Meeting                                                     Fridays 5-6

Resume Workshop                                                                  Friday, March 31, 6

Movie/Games: Petes Dragon, Funny Farm, Office Space, Ferris Bueller, Bruce Almighty Fridays 6:30-9

Bingo                                                                             Sat., March 11 4-8

AA Speakers Meeting                                                    3rd Sat of month 11-2:30

Learn to Crochet & Rewire your Brain                          4th Sat of month, 10-12

Adult Children of Alcoholics, Women’s Meeting          Sundays 6-7:30 

Classes and Groups are ALWAYS FREE OR AT COST AND OPEN TO ALL. 

Please RSVP LatahRecoveryCenter@gmail.com

Bolded=Regular offering.  Plain text=Special offering for month.

Need an understanding person to talk to?  We have Recovery Peer Volunteers here to help you in recovery from mental health and addiction issues all hours of operation. We are here to help!

Write for You: An Alphabet of Today

by Nancy Casey

Begin, as always, with a pristine sheet of paper.  Smooth away its imaginary wrinkles.  Wipe away all the imaginary dust.  Roll your forearms back and forth to make sure your wrists and fingers are relaxed.  Then take you pen and write the letters of the alphabet down the left hand size of the page.  One letter per line.  A to Z.

If you run out of lines before you run out of letters, you can start a second column, or start a second page.

Then think about your day.  Your whole big day.  Everything you’ve done so far, everything you’ve seen, the places you’ve been.  All that you’ve procrastinated, all that you’ve forgotten.  Think about what’s yet to come in this day, what you could do without, what you are looking forward to.  What will be satisfying? What will boring? What people pass through?

As each of these things floats into your mind, write down the word for it next to its letter.  You can write more than one word for each letter.  The letter ‘L’ could get:  lunch, laughing, and letters.  While ‘S’ could have sleep, sugar, stairs and a secret.

Don’t force yourself through the alphabet starting with ‘A’.  Just fill in words in whichever order they come to you. Here’s an example of what your list could look like.

Think up at least one word for each letter.  When you start to slow down, you might have to squeeze your brain a little to wring out a word for letters you haven’t used yet.  Some letters can require a little imagination: ‘Q’ for instance, or the dreaded ‘X’.  Use creative spelling as needed.  Nobody is going to come by with a red pencil and tell you something isn’t right.

When you have finished spilling out words for today’s events and experiences, look over the page and ask yourself if there’s a theme.  Are there groups of the same kinds of words?  Do they revolve around a topic or an event? If there is a theme, make up a title that reflects it.  If there is no theme or pattern to what you’ve written, make up a title anyway. Put the date on the page as well.

This is a very good exercise to do any time your mind is overfull and scattered.

It can get so chaotic inside our brains sometimes. We get overwhelmed when there are so many things on our mind that it doesn’t seem like they can all fit into the one life that we have. You try to organize your morning and are flooded with thoughts about what is coming in the evening. Maybe you should make a grocery list, but really you should clean the bathroom.  You have to remember to meet a friend later, but you haven’t forgotten how that friend made you mad last week.  What about the laundry? The electric bill?  Have you tied your shoes?

As each thought flits at light-speed through your consciousness, grab one word and write it down next to its letter. (S is for Shoes, L is for laces, B is for Bill, L is for laundry, W is for Washer, M is for mad, G is for Groceries, B is for Bathroom…  You get the idea.)

No matter how out-of-control something feels, you can always put it in alphabetical order.

Any time you feel like you don’t have the focus that it takes to “write something,” write the letters of the alphabet down the left-hand side of the page and start filling in words.  Sometimes it’s nice not to have to explain anything.

 

Nancy Casey is a writer and teacher who has lived in rural Latah County for many years.  You can see more of her work here.  

Writing classes will be coming to the Recovery Center in April!  Watch the calendar for more information.

 

 

3/6-3/11 at the Latah Recovery Center

Our writing groups latest blog by Nancy Casey is up:  https://latahrecoverycenter.org/2017/03/06/write-for-you-standing-up-in-silence/
We have two special offerings this week:
Managing Healthy Boundaries 3/7, 6pm.
Art Making:  An Individual Experience, 3/8, 6:30pm.
See below for our full calendar.

March at the Latah Recovery Center

Alcoholics Anonymous                                                  Every day, noon

Positive Affirmations                                                     Mondays and Weds 1:10-2

YOU Can Create Your Own Job                                    Monday 3/6, 6

Life Skills                                                                       Tuesdays 5-6

Managing Healthy Boundaries                                                Tuesday March 7, 6-7

Suicide Prevention:  Question, Persuade and Refer                 Tues., March 28, 6-7

Chess w/Steve                                                                Tues and Thurs 5-6

LRC Board of Directors meeting                                    Tuesday 3/14, 4-5:30

Art Making an Individual Experience                                     Wednesday, March 8 6:30

New Volunteer Orientation                                            Thursdays 4-5

LAMI:  Family Support Program                                   2nd Thurs of month 7-8:30

Knitting and Spinning                                                    Fridays 2-4

All Recovery Meeting                                                     Fridays 5-6

Resume Workshop                                                                  Friday, March 31, 6

Movie/Games: Petes Dragon, Funny Farm, Office Space, Ferris Bueller, Bruce Almighty Fridays 6:30-9

Bingo                                                                             Sat., March 11 4-8

AA Speakers Meeting                                                    3rd Sat of month 11-2:30

Learn to Crochet & Rewire your Brain                          4th Sat of month, 10-12

Adult Children of Alcoholics, Women’s Meeting          Sundays 6-7:30 

Classes and Groups are ALWAYS FREE OR AT COST AND OPEN TO ALL. 

Please RSVP LatahRecoveryCenter@gmail.com

Bolded=Regular offering.  Plain text=Special offering for month.

Need an understanding person to talk to?  We have Recovery Peer Volunteers here to help you in recovery from mental health and addiction issues all hours of operation. We are here to help!

Write for You: Standing Up In Silence

by Nancy Casey

How do you spell the word for that sound you sometimes make when you get out of a chair?  Would it be unnh? Or does it need a “g” in it, something more like aagh?  Does it have an “r” sometimes?  Arnh? Urrh?

It doesn’t matter so much how you spell it, but it matters that you say it.  Or more accurately, since it’s not quite something you “say,” it matters that the noise comes out of you.  We often laugh at ourselves when we make these noises.  But what do they mean?

Only you know for sure, of course, but grunting when you stand up has something to do with the fact that it’s hard to get out of the chair.  If you make one of these noises at the end of your writing practice, it means that your writing practice ends with some kind of a struggle.  Can’t have that!

Today, before you begin your writing practice, experiment with finishing it.  Write the date on the page and then before writing anything else, stand up. Do it like this:

  • Set down your pen. Put your hands in your lap.  Look at the world.
  • Move your feet around to remind them that they will soon have to get to work.
  • Jiggle or slide your body forward in the chair and move your feet to a place where it feels like your feet and legs are solid under you.
  • Push one foot into the floor, and then the other. Gently. Back and forth.  Roll your hips a little bit to the left and right in the chair.
  • Look at the world. If you are inside, use your eyes to “draw” the lines where the ceiling meets the walls.  Trace them slowly, back and forth.  If you are outside, use your eyes to draw around the edges of all the objects that touch the sky.
  • Shift your feet around one last time. Get them under you in a way that makes you feel sturdy from your hips to the floor.  Notify all systems to get ready for lift-off.
  • Scoot the chair back a little bit if you need to.
  • Finally, using all of the big, strong muscles of your legs, lift yourself to a standing position. As you lift, inhale. Imagine that the air you take in floats you up.
  • Once you are on your feet, don’t go anywhere. Shift your weight from your right leg to the left and back a few of times.  Just in case your body has forgotten what walking is like.
  • Tap your left heel on the ground a couple of times. Gently.  Feel the vibration go up your leg and into your torso.  This helps your body remember how sturdy you are.  Tap your left heel.  Then tap them both.
  • Take an interest in the horizon again.
  • Walk gracefully away. Look all around you.  Try to feel yourself gliding.

Return to your writing spot, and write a sentence or two about what that was like.  How was it different from the way you usually stand up? After a couple of sentences, go through the stand-up procedure again.  Return to your writing and write a few sentences about what you have seen since the last time you stood up.  Stand up again and glide around the room.

When you sit down the third time, write about the day ahead.  What do you have to do?  Are different parts of the coming day more appealing than others?  What part of the day promises satisfaction?

When you have finished, give your page a title.  Use the stand-up procedure to glide effortlessly from your chair and into the hours ahead.

 

Nancy Casey is a writer and teacher who has lived in rural Latah County for many years.  You can see more of her work here.

Would you like to attend a writing class?  Nancy will begin teaching at the Recovery Center in April.  Stay tuned!

 

 

March Calendar

A few quick announcements:

  1.  The next Write for You blog by Nancy Casey is up:  https://latahrecoverycenter.org/2017/02/27/write-for-you-take-another-look/
  2. Our fundraising breakfast is coming FAST!  March 8, 7am.  Keynote speaker is Judge Stegner.  If you haven’t been invited by one of our 30 table captains, we’d still LOVE to have you.  Please RSVP to this address by March 2, 5pm.

Without further adieu, here’s the March calendar.  Great things are planned!

March at the Latah Recovery Center

Alcoholics Anonymous                                                  Every day, noon

Positive Affirmations                                                     Mondays and Weds 1:10-2

YOU Can Create Your Own Job                                    Monday 3/6, 6

Life Skills                                                                      Tuesdays 5-6

Managing Healthy Boundaries                                                Tuesday March 7, 6-7

Suicide Prevention:  Question, Persuade and Refer                 Tues., March 28, 6-7

Chess w/Steve                                                                Tues and Thurs 5-6

LRC Board of Directors meeting                                    Tuesday 3/14, 4-5:30

Art Making an Individual Experience                                     Wednesday, March 8 6:30

New Volunteer Orientation                                            Thursdays 4-5

LAMI:  Family Support Program                                   2nd Thurs of month 7-8:30

Knitting and Spinning                                                    Fridays 2-4

All Recovery Meeting                                                     Fridays 5-6

Resume Workshop                                                                  Friday, March 31, 6

Movie/Games: Petes Dragon, Funny Farm, Office Space, Ferris Bueller, Bruce Almighty Fridays 6:30-9

Bingo                                                                             Sat., March 11 4-8

AA Speakers Meeting                                                    3rd Sat of month 11-2:30

Learn to Crochet & Rewire your Brain                          4th Sat of month, 10-12

Adult Children of Alcoholics, Women’s Meeting          Sundays 6-7:30

Classes and Groups are ALWAYS FREE OR AT COST AND OPEN TO ALL.

Please RSVP LatahRecoveryCenter@gmail.com

Bolded=Regular offering.  Plain text=Special offering for month.

Need an understanding person to talk to?  We have Recovery Peer Volunteers here to help you in recovery from mental health and addiction issues all hours of operation. We are here to help!

 

Write for You: Take Another Look

By Nancy Casey

Choose an interesting place in your house to write about.  Walk around in that place and take a look at all the things that make it interesting.

Everything you can see is interesting in and of itself. A melted candle. The dent in the couch cushion.  A book called I’ll Sell You a Dog. The stapler.

Some things are interesting because of what we know about them.  The clock that hung on the wall in my mother’s house.  The only boots that don’t leak.  The doormat from Nevada.  The cat food that is almost gone.

A whole lot of things become more interesting because of where they happen to be, or what they have landed next to.  The shoe on the desk.  The spider in the shower.  The bright yellow napkin on the doorstep. A ten-penny nail in the coffee cup.

Action is always more interesting than no-action. Water dripping outside the window. Birds.  Wind. The computer fan. The snoring dog. All the sounds.

After you’ve taken in what’s interesting about that place in your house, go somewhere you can’t see what you’ve been looking at and sit down with your writing materials. Describe the interesting things that you saw.

After you have finished writing, go back and wander around the spot you were writing about.  Notice what you forgot to put in your description.  After you’ve taken a good look, go back to your writing and describe more things.

Get up and take a third look. What more can you write down about this particular spot in the world?  Has anything changed?  Could anything change?  Has anything become more interesting, or less so?

Keep alternating between looking and writing until there is nothing more to say.  Is that possible?  How can you be sure you can’t say anything new? Here is an example of what someone could write.

When you have finished with this writing, put the date on the page and give it a title.  Then think about a place you could write about next time.

This is fun to do in your house because it helps you appreciate how rich your surroundings are how unique they are to you.  In a day or two, you can visit the same spot in your house and write about what has and hasn’t changed.  You can do that a month from now, too.

You don’t have to limit yourself to the inside of your house.  You can write about a new place that you visit, or describe a place you see every day in your usual routine.  All you need is something to look at and a place nearby where you can write down what you have seen.

An art gallery, for example, is a fun place to do this exercise.  Interesting rooms are not hard to find, and usually there are places to sit.  Libraries are like that, too.  You could do the writing in a café or park and do the “looking” on a walk around the block.

If you do this exercise a half-dozen times, you will be certain of at least one thing: the more you look, the more interesting things get.

 

Nancy Casey is a writer and teacher who has lived in rural Latah County for many years.  You can see more of her work here.

2/21-2/28 at the Latah Recovery Center

Lots going on!
  • Tonight at 6pm local counselor Doug Salada will be discussing Anger Management.  YOU ARE INVITED!
  • 2/23 Idaho Department of Corrections is hosting their FREE 2 SUCCEED MENTOR TRAINING at our Lewiston Center.  Contact latahrecoverycenter@gmail.com for full details.
  • March 8, 7am is our 2nd Annual Fundraising Breakfast.  Keynote Speaker is Judge Stegner.  If you’d like to attend please contact Darrell:  latahrecoverycenter@gmail.com.  RSVP required.  If you have already been invited by a table captain, no need to RSVP to Darrell.
The latest Write For You blog by Nancy Casey is up: https://latahrecoverycenter.org/2017/02/21/write-for-you-so-many-roads/

February at the Latah Recovery Center

Alcoholics Anonymous                                                  Every day, noon

Positive Affirmations                                                     Mondays and Weds 1:10-2

YOU Can Create Your Own Job                                    Monday 2/6, 6

Life Skills                                                                       Tuesdays 5-6

Chess w/Steve                                                                Tues and Thurs 5-6

LRC Board of Directors meeting                                    Tuesday 2/7, 4-5:30

Cultural Competence in Recovery Coaching: Video      Tuesday 2/7, 2-3

Anger Management w/Doug Salada                               Tuesday 2/21, 6

Writing Journeys w/Nancy and Ginger                          Wednesdays, 4-5

Recovery Peer Volunteer Training (RSVP by 2/13)                 Wed. 2/15 (LRC) and 2/22 (@NPRRC)

Mental Health First Aid                                                 Wed 2/1 and Thurs 2/2, 4-8

Free 2 Succeed:  IDOC Mentor Training (RSVP by 2/21)       Thurs. 2/23, 5-9 (@NPRRC)

LAMI:  Family Support Program                                   2nd Thurs of month 7-8:30

Knitting and Spinning                                                    Fridays 2-5

All Recovery Meeting                                                     Fridays 5-6

Movie/Games: Shawshank Redemption, Toy Story, Mathilda, Star Trek 1                              Fridays 6:30-9

AA Speakers Meeting                                                    3rd Sat of month 11-2:30

Learn to Crochet & Rewire your Brain                          4th Sat of month, 10-12

Adult Children of Alcoholics, Women’s Meeting          Sundays 6-7:30 

Classes and Groups are ALWAYS FREE OR AT COST AND OPEN TO ALL. 

Please RSVP LatahRecoveryCenter@gmail.com

Bolded=Regular offering.  Plain text=Special offering for month.

Need an understanding person to talk to?  We have Recovery Peer Volunteers here to help you in recovery from mental health and addiction issues all hours of operation. We are here to help!

Write for You: So Many Roads

By Nancy Casey

 

Where have you been lately?  Think about the places you go regularly.  To work or school, perhaps, or to buy groceries or visit a friend.  Maybe you like to take walks and go noplace in particular.

 

Pick one of those places, just one, and go over in your mind the route you take to get there.  You go down one road and then another, turning left and right, crossing streets.  Maybe you travel on a bike, a skateboard, or your own two feet.  Maybe you ride in a car, a bus, or a taxi.  It doesn’t matter how you go.  Somehow or another, you get there.

 

What do you encounter along the way?  That’s what you are going to write about today. 

 

Get your ideas flowing by using this writing prompt:  “Down the road called …[blank]…, you will find…[blank]…”  Write out the sentence and fill in the blanks, telling all the things that you can  see, hear, smell, touch, or taste as you travel down that road. 

 

For instance, you might write something like, “Down the road called Hayes Street, you will find wet sidewalks, parked cars, a mustard-colored house with blue trim, squirrels, and the smell of somebody’s barbecue.”  Then, imagine yourself crossing the next street or turning the corner, and write out the sentence again for the next road you go down.  And the next.

 

Keep it up until you get to your destination.  When you are finished put the date somewhere on the page and add a title.  You can illustrate the page with pictures of what you encounter on your many roads.  Or you could draw a map.

 

If you are old enough to read this, you have definitely traveled down the roads of life.  Over the course of the week, you can write about those roads, too. 

 

Certainly you have been down roads called “bad weather” and “school” and “family.”   Maybe you have taken special trips down roads with names like “dandelion” or “mushroom soup” or “mosquito.”  You’ve been down easy roads and hard roads, silly roads and strong roads.  Some of them are roads that everybody goes down sooner or later, and some of them are roads that only you have traveled.

 

Throughout the week, keep returning to the prompt:  :  “Down the road called …[blank]…, you will find…[blank]…” and describe some of the roads you have been down.  Here is an example.

 

No matter what road you take, a couple of things are guaranteed. You always end up somewhere.  And from there you can go someplace else.

Nancy Casey is a writer and teacher who has lived in rural Latah County for many years.  You can see more of her work here.

 

 If you like the idea of writing every week, but want to do it with others in a class setting, you are welcome to attend “Writing Journeys” with Ginger Rankin on Wednesdays from 4-5 in February at the Latah Recovery Center.  The class does exercises from this blog and other things as well.

 

 

 

2/13-2/20 at the Latah Recovery Center

Our March 8, 7am Fundraising Breakfast is coming soon.  We have 30 table captains helping us fill the room.  Goal is 35!  Will you help?  Contact Darrell at this email address.
The new Write For You blog post by Nancy Casey is here:https://latahrecoverycenter.org/2017/02/13/write-for-you-such-a-useful-body/
Special Offerings this Week:
2/15, 6-9pm at Latah Recovery Center Part 1 of Recovery Peer Volunteer Training.  This is our intro class going over the skills needed to coach those in recovery from addiction and mental health issues.  Please RSVP by 2/13!
2/18, 11-2:30pm AA Speakers Meeting.
Here is our complete February calendar:

February at the Latah Recovery Center

Alcoholics Anonymous                                                  Every day, noon

Positive Affirmations                                                     Mondays and Weds 1:10-2

YOU Can Create Your Own Job                                    Monday 2/6, 6

Life Skills                                                                       Tuesdays 5-6

Chess w/Steve                                                                Tues and Thurs 5-6

LRC Board of Directors meeting                                    Tuesday 2/7, 4-5:30

Cultural Competence in Recovery Coaching: Video      Tuesday 2/7, 2-3

Anger Management w/Doug Salada                               Tuesday 2/21, 6

Writing Journeys w/Nancy and Ginger                          Wednesdays, 4-5

Recovery Peer Volunteer Training (RSVP by 2/13)                 Wed. 2/15 (LRC) and 2/22 (@NPRRC)

Mental Health First Aid                                                 Wed 2/1 and Thurs 2/2, 4-8

Free 2 Succeed:  IDOC Mentor Training (RSVP by 2/21)       Thurs. 2/23, 5-9 (@NPRRC)

LAMI:  Family Support Program                                   2nd Thurs of month 7-8:30

Knitting and Spinning                                                    Fridays 2-5

All Recovery Meeting                                                     Fridays 5-6

Movie/Games: Shawshank Redemption, Toy Story, Mathilda, Star Trek 1                              Fridays 6:30-9

AA Speakers Meeting                                                    3rd Sat of month 11-2:30

Learn to Crochet & Rewire your Brain                          4th Sat of month, 10-12

Adult Children of Alcoholics, Women’s Meeting          Sundays 6-7:30 

Classes and Groups are ALWAYS FREE OR AT COST AND OPEN TO ALL. 

Please RSVP LatahRecoveryCenter@gmail.com

Bolded=Regular offering.  Plain text=Special offering for month.

Need an understanding person to talk to?  We have Recovery Peer Volunteers here to help you in recovery from mental health and addiction issues all hours of operation. We are here to help!